How do become gentle person?

Before discussing how to become a gentle person, let's first look at what a gentle person can make you stronger than ordinary people:

1. A steady temperament.

2. Export into chapters, with the temperament of poetry

3. Gentle, considerate and sunny temperament

4. A lively, open-minded, assertive and self-confident temperament

5. Not many words, but always one word, cold temperament

6. Learn to dress up, clean temperament

The above is the temperament of most gentlemen.

Now that you have listed them, which temperament you want, try the following methods. Finally, the temperament you cultivate is combined, it is your own temperament.

Here are some small methods for the five temperaments~

1. keeping calm in an emergency, steady

Stability is in terms of both body and mind.

The stability of the body is to adjust your standing, sitting and walking postures.

Standing and sitting while with a hunchback will make you look particularly wretched.

When walking, the waist should be straight, with a slight smile, not only will it appear steady, but also show your confidence.

The stability of the second layer is spiritual.

First of all, honesty is a manifestation of stability. A person of good faith will be trusted by everyone and feel that you are very reliable.

Carefulness is also an important part of making you feel stable. If you often pay attention to things that are not easy to detect and think about in life, you are a caring person.

Be careful to think about the results before you do things, which will help you make decisions and make you feel stable.

2. Exported into a chapter, with a poem

One who is filled with knowledge always behaves with elegance.

Reading can cultivate temperament. This has been said to be bad, and today, how should I study?

Because many people say that reading is reading, but it feels useless after reading. Today, I will talk about reading methods.

In my opinion, reading is very important, but taking notes is more important!

Humans will be forgotten. If you don't take notes, forget when you finish reading. It won't become part of your memory. Instead, it will give you a feeling of regret that you have read but forgot.

When you read a good sentence, draw it, fold the page down, and after reading the whole article, take out a book, extract the favorite sentence to the book, and mark the page number. Then write your own reading feelings.

I can't write a lot at the beginning. It doesn't matter. I can write as much as I can. Write my own inner thoughts. Anyway, I don't have to show it to others.

Slowly you will find yourself writing more and more, indicating that your thinking ability is improving, and your temperament will be slowly cultivated.

When you see something in your life, you will also think of the contents of the book, export it into a chapter, and get everyone's appreciation.

3. Gentle and considerate, and sunshine

Mainly for girls (whisper bb), for boys is sincere, for girls is to be open.

Many boys spit out that they are very embarrassed to communicate with girls, and even say hello to say hello.

How can you let them see your temperament?

Be active, don't be shy. Treat everyone gently and let them feel your thoughtfulness and your sunshine.

4. Lively and cheerful, with a strong opinion

In a small team, strive to be a leader. This will improve your abilities.

Because you need to constantly communicate and communicate. You will become familiar with members and have a better relationship. Everyone thinks you are very lively and cheerful.

Similarly, the position of the leader will allow you to constantly think about how to lead the team. Develop your thinking skills.

Stick to your opinion, don't just give up the thoughts of yourself or others, and let others think that you are very reliable. It is a man of opinion.

5. High cooling style

Contrary to the first half of the fourth sentence, the High cooling style may not be suitable as a leader in a team, but like the fourth, you must have your own opinion.

The high cooling style is not mean, remember, not aggressive, but the appearance is cold, the heart is not cold.

This sister will be interested in slowly studying you and slowly falling in love with you.

6. Learn to dress up and clean

In addition to your own standing and walking posture, it is also important to have a clean appearance.

After all, your appearance is not clean, very embarrassing, who cares about you, understand your inner.

Keep yourself clean every day, not just clean yourself, but your clothes should be clean.

A gentle person must have his own custom clothes, eg., dress shirts，suits，jeans which have your own name on brand and have your own style!

Don't grin when you laugh, like a fool, no one will like it. Slightly smile, you can, most like girls.

Don't always be blind without eyes. When you look at people or look at things, you have to show yourself very seriously, just like you are squatting. That will make you feel very spiritual.

Fitness is also very effective for improving temperament.

These small methods are listed, but it is still your own business.

I hope everyone will stick to it and be a gentle person！